HE FITS

maybe we feed him without holding him

or maybe we hold him without wanting our picture taken

or maybe he's tad too big for our arms when we hold him

or maybe we hold him on our laps while we are on the computer 

or maybe we hold him in our fathers day present.

Either way...he fits.  There is no doubt about how perfectly he fits into our family.  There are no crazy adjustments we had to go through, none of us question his existence in our family.  He just is.  He's part of our family.  We forgot how it is without him.  It's our new normal.  And it's perfect.  Because God chose him perfect for us.